Merry Christmas, Mum

Even before I left, I knew doing the Christmas shopping with my mum wasn’t a good idea. I was proven right.

First, we went to Lidl.

“What’s that?”

“A jigsaw.”

“Oh. That’s nice. What’s that?”

“A calligraphy set.”

“….”

“A fancy pen.”

“Oh. What’s that? That’s lovely, isn’t it?”

“ It’s a wooden sled.”

“A sled? Ah thought it wis a table.”

“No, Mum.”

darting

“Oh, look, a dart board! Ah’d love a dart board. I wish I had somewhere to put it.”

“But mum, your eyesight isn’t the best.” (She has macular degeneration and cataracts)

“But it’d pass the time.”

“Do you not think it’d be better to pass the time doing something that wouldn’t end up with broken lights, mirror, people…?”

“Och, you! Oh, look, they’ve got darts too!”

“No good without the dart board?”

“What’s that?”

Repeat ad infinitum.

 

Next shop, Pets at Home.

“What’s that?”

“It’s dog treats.”

“Oh, look at they bunnies. What’s that?”

“Those are guinea pigs.”

“You’ve got one of them.”

“Yes, I do.”

crate“£75? For that cage?”

“Yes, mum.”

“Wow. It doesn’t have anything in it even!”

“…”

“What’s that?”

Etc, etc.

 

Home Bargains.

“What’s that?”

Do I need to say more?

 

Tesco

“See me? Ma heid’s cabbage.”

“Cabbage? What does cabbage have to do with it?”

“Och, I just made it up!”

 

We then came home where she started singing Temptation. No idea what the tune was, but I recognised some of the words.

fish supper“I had fish and chips last night so I don’t want it again for a while, but I want a fish supper.”

My daughter then told her that a lot of people thought the world was going to end tomorrow. She had never heard of it before, but she did think it was just like what happened in the year 1000 ‘cos she remembered it. We think she meant 2000…

Mum finished off her visit by talking in a foreign accent (“Ah’ve no idea what kind it is – ah made it up! Hahahahaha!”) and giving Heil Hitler Nazi salutes to the new puppy.

All I want for Christmas is to be told I’m adopted…

Merry Christmas, Mum, and thanks for all the fun xxx

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11 Comments

  1. Anne Mackle @cassam101
    Dec 20, 2012

    Ah your mum must really have you in tears laughing and of course frustration at times. We used to say, “Ma heid’s mince” never heard of it being cabbage lol!!

  2. Anne Mackle @cassam101
    Dec 20, 2012

    Ah your mum must really have you in tears laughing and of course frustration at times. We used to say, “Ma heid’s mince” never heard of it being cabbage lol!!

  3. Margot Kinberg
    Dec 20, 2012

    Nettie – What a shopping trip!! Thanks for sharing…

  4. Margot Kinberg
    Dec 20, 2012

    Nettie – What a shopping trip!! Thanks for sharing…

  5. Merry Christmas 😉 You still have a part of her even with all that has come to pass and I think that it’s great to smile through the sadness of dementia – It is such a great coping skill.

  6. Merry Christmas 😉 You still have a part of her even with all that has come to pass and I think that it’s great to smile through the sadness of dementia – It is such a great coping skill.

  7. ailsaabrahamwp
    Dec 21, 2012

    You are a saint Nettie and I adore your Mum. Wish her a very Merry Christmas from Ailsa and Peter – she’s bound to remember us (even if we haven’t met). I hope you all have a wonderful time. I don’t know how you cope but the love comes shining through in your posts. xxx

  8. ailsaabrahamwp
    Dec 21, 2012

    You are a saint Nettie and I adore your Mum. Wish her a very Merry Christmas from Ailsa and Peter – she’s bound to remember us (even if we haven’t met). I hope you all have a wonderful time. I don’t know how you cope but the love comes shining through in your posts. xxx

  9. glynissmy1
    Dec 21, 2012

    Merry Christmas MUM. It is the day when the fat man comes down the chimney in a red suit … never mind, Nettie will explain it to you. Nettie, put down the whiskey bottle, and oh, is that the cage from the pet store? What, will she fit in it? 😀

    Happy Christmas, friend. Have fun x

  10. glynissmy1
    Dec 21, 2012

    Merry Christmas MUM. It is the day when the fat man comes down the chimney in a red suit … never mind, Nettie will explain it to you. Nettie, put down the whiskey bottle, and oh, is that the cage from the pet store? What, will she fit in it? 😀

    Happy Christmas, friend. Have fun x

  11. Abi Burlingham
    Dec 22, 2012

    Oh my God! Laughed until I had tears. You could make these snippets into a novel, Nettie – the world needs more laugh out loud books xx

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