Not One Good Day

Today has been the shittiest day in the history of shitty days.

Pardon my French.

But really…

I had an appointment at the pain clinic at noon. Parking at the hospital is very difficult and I was warned that I may not be able to drive after the injections they were going to give me. So, after dropping off my daughter’s friend who had stayed overnight, we headed into one of Aberdeen’s Park & Ride facilities. This involves a drive using narrow country roads. We turned off the main road to the B road leading to the P&R – and it was closed due to road works.

No matter, we had plenty of time. I’d head back and take the longer alternative B road. But it was closed due to an accident.

So we headed right in to Aberdeen Royal Infirmary where we eventually managed to get the last parking space in the hospital. It was as far away from the main door as it was possible to be and still be in the hospital grounds. And it was raining.

We were still a little early so we headed for the cafeteria for a coffee before getting to the clinic at 11:55am. I handed over my letter to the receptionist who took it from me, read it and told me, “You’re at the wrong hospital. It should be Woolmanhill.”.

You can imagine the expletives I screamed at myself in my head. The receptionist called Woolmanhill and explained my idiocy. They said if I could get there as quick as I could there would be a chance that the doctor might be able to see me. I hobbled down the stairs as quickly as possible and called for a taxi which got me to the right hospital for 12:15. I had to wait until nearly 1pm to be seen, but I got my injections, six or seven of them, and we then walked into Aberdeen city centre – not far.

Lunch in M&S was nice and we nipped into WH Smith to buy magazines before heading for Union Street to catch a bus back to the hospital where I left the car. A couple of young girls got on the bus with us. They had a baby in a pram and took over the front of the bus which was, I suppose, fair enough. One of them was having a conversation on her phone. Loudly. While eating a Big Mac & Fries with one hand. I mean, this girl had talent. She would shove her gob into the fries and chow down like a cow while blethering to her pal on the phone. A charming girl.

It was still raining heavily when we got off the bus to walk the half mile to the car, but we got there and we are home in one piece.

And I have found a new home for Wendy and she will probably be leaving us by the end of the week.

I know this might not sound like much, but it felt like a lot at the time. And my heart is broken at Wendy going, but it’s best for her and for me. I’m not fit enough to give her the life she deserves, but I’ll miss her.

Sorry to moan.

 

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24 Comments

  1. Glynis Smy
    Feb 15, 2011

    Big hugs! X

  2. Catt
    Feb 15, 2011

    Firstly, don’t ever apologising for moaning. Moaning helps us get rid of how we feel, and if we don’t do that, it’s not good. Big hugs to you – a very easy mistake to make. & v sorry about Wendy. *squish*

  3. Margot Kinberg
    Feb 15, 2011

    Nettie – I am so sorry to hear what a day you’ve had!! {{{Nettie}}}. I think you are doing the kindest thing you can do for Wendy, but I know it must be very, very painful for you. You will get through it, but do something extra-nice for yourself. You need it.

  4. Laura Tyrrell
    Feb 15, 2011

    Uh Oh, I think you deserve a nice relaxing evening and a cup of tea / glass of wine. Feel better.

  5. Tracy Tidswell
    Feb 15, 2011

    Oh Nettie, that’s what we’re here for! Sorry about your day and even sorrier about wendy, I know it can’t have been an easy decision for you.
    I can’t say anything to make you feel better but can send lots of love and a hug xxxxx

  6. Tracy Tidswell
    Feb 15, 2011

    Oh Nettie, that’s what we’re here for! Sorry about your day and even sorrier about wendy, I know it can’t have been an easy decision for you.
    I can’t say anything to make you feel better but can send lots of love and a hug xxxxx

  7. sarsm
    Feb 15, 2011

    You’re absolutely right to shout out in French after a day like that! Hope that tomorrow’s better for you.

  8. sarsm
    Feb 15, 2011

    You’re absolutely right to shout out in French after a day like that! Hope that tomorrow’s better for you.

  9. Rebecca Brown
    Feb 15, 2011

    Big hugs Nettie. You know I’m here when you need a moan. xxx

  10. Rebecca Brown
    Feb 15, 2011

    Big hugs Nettie. You know I’m here when you need a moan. xxx

  11. Jackie Aitchison
    Feb 15, 2011

    What a stinker of a day, huge **hugs**. Nothing I can say that might help except to say it might help a little seeing the number of people here who care enough to try to let you know they are here and happy to listen. xxx

  12. Jackie Aitchison
    Feb 15, 2011

    What a stinker of a day, huge **hugs**. Nothing I can say that might help except to say it might help a little seeing the number of people here who care enough to try to let you know they are here and happy to listen. xxx

  13. Jan Carr
    Feb 15, 2011

    Yep Hospitals are generally bad for your health – emotional and mental
    Hope you’re warm and cosy now.

  14. Jan Carr
    Feb 15, 2011

    Yep Hospitals are generally bad for your health – emotional and mental
    Hope you’re warm and cosy now.

  15. Anthony
    Feb 15, 2011

    Nasty old day indeed. Balance it by treating yourself to something ludicrously self-indulgent and never apologise for moaning.

    • nettiewriter
      Feb 15, 2011

      Thank you all for being so wonderfully supportive today. Your comments have meant so much to me.
      Nx

  16. Anthony
    Feb 15, 2011

    Nasty old day indeed. Balance it by treating yourself to something ludicrously self-indulgent and never apologise for moaning.

    • nettiewriter
      Feb 15, 2011

      Thank you all for being so wonderfully supportive today. Your comments have meant so much to me.
      Nx

  17. Sarah Callejo
    Feb 15, 2011

    But we’re your friends and that’s why we want to hear about your problems and joys. It was a shitty shitty bang bang day, but the good thing was you did get your injections, just imagine if you’d missed them. I hope they will do miracles and you’ll start feeling much better. Wendy will be happy where she’s going and in the long run, you will be too, especially as you won’t feel guilty about not looking after her as she deserves. Lots of love and hugs and kleenex for that runny nose.

  18. Sarah Callejo
    Feb 15, 2011

    But we’re your friends and that’s why we want to hear about your problems and joys. It was a shitty shitty bang bang day, but the good thing was you did get your injections, just imagine if you’d missed them. I hope they will do miracles and you’ll start feeling much better. Wendy will be happy where she’s going and in the long run, you will be too, especially as you won’t feel guilty about not looking after her as she deserves. Lots of love and hugs and kleenex for that runny nose.

  19. Jane Travers
    Feb 16, 2011

    So sorry about Wendy. I really hope this other person works out and that you can be, if not happy, at least content that they are right for each other. Hugs 🙂

  20. Jane Travers
    Feb 16, 2011

    So sorry about Wendy. I really hope this other person works out and that you can be, if not happy, at least content that they are right for each other. Hugs 🙂

  21. Ange Barton
    Feb 16, 2011

    Oh my little love – sorry to hear that such a lovely person is having a rough time. Wish I lived closer and I’d bake you a cake and put on the kettle. *big hug sent across the ether* X

  22. Ange Barton
    Feb 16, 2011

    Oh my little love – sorry to hear that such a lovely person is having a rough time. Wish I lived closer and I’d bake you a cake and put on the kettle. *big hug sent across the ether* X

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